A New Leaf

It's getting to that time of year when everyone prepares to turn over a new leaf. 2009 is coming to an end and everyone is getting ready for a new and rejuvenated 2010. The world sits at a desk and thinks up all the various things they would like to change in their life and they vow to commit to them start January 1st.

One of the top, close to number, promise many have on their list is - spend more time with family. Usually people would assume that lose weight, quit smoking/drinking or exercise would be, but no... it's family. Family is the number one most important thing on people's lists. Family is very important especially to me. I live on campus in Ottawa away from my hometown of Toronto - no family. It was months before I came home to spend time with family since it wasn't easy to book a whole weekend off to travel home. Your family is not only good for financial support (but we don't deny that, that is a bonus), but they're important for emotional support. For many students, it was hard to separate from their parents and live on their own looking to friends to fill that empty space. It's OK to admit you miss home and might actually need to spend a bit of time with your folks.

It's funny how most students living out of town think that there is no looking back. As soon as they hit Carleton grounds its goodbye parents. Though, I'll let you know now... make it to November, December maybe and you'll be eager to have home-cooked meals, laundry, a chauffeur because, from experience, the bus is expensive. Though I will admit. There was a friend of mine who actually hadn't spoken to his family since he left that day in September. He was one of the few.

I have to say what I miss most is being able to spend quality time with the family. I think, overall, I've been pretty good with staying in touch with the family. Checking up and keeping up to date with the family members close to me because they are the ones who helped me get where I am today with their love and support.

Never forget your family and make time for them this coming semester. I hope everyone enjoyed the holidays - good quality family time!